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Santa Claus? Sure. My
friend Doug is really Santa Claus, who just disguises himself as an
ordinary fellow 364 days of the year to walk around with the rest of us,
and then zips up to the North Pole to make his rounds on the 24th
of December.
This guy is amazing.
He is one of those truly
kind and caring people who checks up on his friends when he knows they
are hurting, and who constantly builds people up and supports them. He
is amazingly generous. I’ve seen him leave tips for waiters and
waitresses that are larger than the bill for the meal, and he is forever
picking up the tab for the entire table when friends go out to eat
together—and don’t try to stop him, either!
“Doug,” I once asked
him, “when people ask you what you do for a living, do you tell them you
are an artist, or do you tell them you are a teacher?”
“I’m a teacher,” he
said, without hesitation.
He teaches art—drawing and painting and sometimes photography. He
teaches life, too, and not just to the college kids who take his
classes.
“Look at this one,” he says to me as I’m standing in the gallery in the
art building looking at a painting. “See how the horizon is placed back
there through the window in the back wall of the house? Now, look at….”
And a half hour later, we are hunched over a coffee stained napkin in
the cafeteria as he explains to me how an artist can command the
viewer’s eye to view the painting as if the viewer were a tall person or
a short person or a person looking over the shoulder of the artist.
And, when he’s finished with this utterly fascinating topic, I realize
that I’ve just been reminded to keep the important things in life in the
foreground and to push the annoying things off into the dust in the
corner.
Not to say that my dear friend is a sober and serious fellow, or one who
is incapable of losing his temper, because he’s just plain fun to be
around. He apparently has suffered a lifetime of corny jokes from his
father and has never forgotten a single one of them, and can tell these
wacky stories exactly when they need to be told. Or, if someone does
something that he thinks is worthy of his anger, he ponders it, ponders
it some more, deliberates, and then, if it still seems like a bad thing,
he’ll sound off strongly, articulately and often in the relatively salty
language of the Special Forces of the United State Army, of which he is
a veteran.
Doug’s art is amazing. To see this gentle giant work—and one seldom
does because he works alone, usually in the middle of the night—is to
see intensity personified. He is a perfectionist. One of his major
works consisted of carefully constructed (he’s going to maim me for
describing it this way) blue and red dots that nearly send the viewer to
the nuthouse after a few minutes of viewing. The dots start changing
colors and moving around. Even Doug admits that when he painted it, he
had to take frequent breaks to avoid insanity.
He’s a sports nut, and drives thousands of miles every year to attend
track meets and basketball and football games. Every student on campus
seems to know Doug. There may be two dozen men on campus named “Doug”
but when someone says, “I saw Doug today,” everyone knows that they are
talking about THE Doug.
He’s going to retire from teaching in May, and will go home to his wife
and his newly-built studio to paint. But, I’d be willing to bet that if
anybody asks him a year from now what he “does,” he’ll automatically
say, “I’m a teacher.”
Did I mention that Doug is also very humble? Man, is he going to kill
me when he reads this. To my way of thinking, the only higher honor in
the world than to be called “teacher” is to be called “friend.”
Doug—teacher and friend.
by Jim
Whitehouse
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